A Simple Life

by TMS 4 Replies latest jw friends

  • TMS
    TMS

    Larc mentioned our heritage as JW’s recently. I used that same word in a response to a thread started by JT. Mrs. Gene Brandt, wife of the famous district overseer, spoke our her Witness heritage in her life story, published in the Watchtower. The 1967 WTBS black and white documentary “Heritage” portrayed Witness young people as enjoying a legacy of a good conscience, peace and fulfillment, while their non-Witness counterparts suffered STD’s, illegitimate pregnancies, guilt, etc.

    This all got me to thinking about what MY JW heritage might be. John Lennon’s words came to me: “You must have learned SOMETHING in all those years.”

    I did. Frugality.

    Most of us with extensive, active JW backgrounds come closer to the lifestyle of the half-penny pinching Henry David Thoreau than to Mark Cuban. “Putting the Kingdom first” necessitates creative economic adjustment. In my two person household, I am know as “Mr. Cheap”. My gentle protest is that my paycheck is put back into circulation quicker than a New York bellhop can show you his palm. Although, I admit to visiting the Frugal Living discussion board, “Insulating with Dryer Lint” is not my concept of frugality.

    Turning the clock back thirty-five years, my wife and I enjoyed a lifestyle, almost sublime, on very little coin. Martin Jensen, the subject of an earlier post, had just died. His masonite 40’s vintage trailer sported a large hole on each side where Hurricane Beulah had blown a tree limb through it. The Congregation Servant’s wife had confiscated the only thing of value in the trailer, a pressure cooker, and consensus was, that if we wanted the trailer, it was ours.

    We went to work. We covered the fuselage with heavy cheese cloth and applied Sears-Roebuck asphalt-aluminum coating, several coats. From a distance, the old trailer resembled an Airstream. We tiled the floor with alternating green/almond tiles and applied green epoxy to the fridge and stove. OK, we had a home. The CO suggested a $5.00 per month contribution for electricity. OK.

    My $33.00 a week income enabled us to eat out EVERY meal. Panchita’s on 14th Street offered a platter-size flour tortilla with refried beans for 15 cents. Coffee was a dime extra, including refills. We usually had change in our pockets after morning field service and the basement cafeteria at Mercy Hospital took mercy on us with their 30 cent vegetable plate. We stopped on the way at a panaderia (bakery) and my wife had stuffed a bollio (french bread) in her purse. 10 more cents. Usually, this was enough food, but on some nights, we crossed the border , eating dinner at Papagayo’s. Bistec con papas fritas was 8 pesos (64 cents), including a stack of corn tortillas, frijoles, a bowl full of key limes and salsa.

    In the Rio Grande Valley, there are still Ropa Segundas, large second hand clothing stores. The clothing comes in box car loads from up north and is bought by the ton. It is unloaded in large bales, which are dumped on the floor. Mexican women sort through these bales by throwing each garment over their shoulder. As the pile in front diminishes, a larger, looser one grows behind them. These women can tell by looking if any garment will fit any member of their family. My wife has these skills and years ago picked up many stylish garments at the then going rate of 10 cents each.

    I will halt this boring soliloquy here. As Barbra sings: “It was all so simple then.”

    TMS

  • Marilyn
    Marilyn

    What a lovely post. Funny coz I was looking at old photos yesterday. Most of them were of our WT era. The one thing I noticed was all the second hand clothes I was wearing. I had good taste and could always find something attractive in an Opp Shop.

    When we got married (as witnesses) I was 19 and my husband was 20 (we're still together). He was finishing College coz he was in College when I converted him. I had given up my full time job six months earlier to pioneer and I had some savings of about $500 in the bank. My husband had $100 tops. His income was $28.50 which was a Commonwealth scholarship to study and we paid $16.00 rent on our flat. This was 1972. It was a miserable start to a marriage. We ate at my parents place a lot and slowly made our way thru the money in the bank. But I clearly remember thinking that life was way too difficult without money.

    Life has been very good to us and we have prospered - but sometimes both my husband and I have little tantrums over the cost of something. We're always saying "old habits die hard"! Like my son called someone on their mobile overseas yesterday and I hit the roof. Does he think we're made of money? Wait till you have to pay your own bills bla bla bla. The fuss I made was disproportionate to the indiscretion - but that call probably cost the equivelent of our weekly income in 1972!!

    Marilyn

  • waiting
    waiting

    Ahhhh, the memories.

    I got married to get out of my family in 1969 at the ripe age of 19 (both of us.) We both worked, however. Spent $50 month on rent, $10 week on food.....and did it.

    We were flat broke when our first child was born, but we made it - with no financial help. I went back to full time work when she was 2 weeks old. It was ok, I guess.

    knew every 2nd hand store in the city. She and I dressed ok....because I had a good eye and new how to get stains out. Strangely enough, my husband wouldn't wear 2nd hand clothes. It was fine for our baby, and then 2nd & 3rd child, but he wouldn't be caught dead in "used clothes." Of course, the damned gold chain around his neck and blond curls probably had something to do with it too.

    Anyway, we all survived, I got rid of him, gold chains, and girlfriends. However, I still haunt 2nd hand shops. Guess that's what got me interested in antiques - which are probably 5th handed.

    Note of interest. When my middle son was in high school - he dressed according to GQ magazine. He went to college, had to help pay, and all of a sudden! Clothes with holes in them had character! Go figure........

    waiting

  • Carmel
    Carmel

    ....and did it. ???? Are you sure you aren't on the wrong thread honey? Simon wants hussies like you to take that nasty talk to the Sex site sweetheart!

    candy man

  • Marilyn
    Marilyn

    :::::::::::Guess that's what got me interested in antiques

    Geez Waiting, Why are we all so predictable???? Though I'm even over antiques now. I'm at the stage of wanting less not more. I dare say you know what I mean??

    Marilyn
    ps my husband had blond curls but no gold chain. It made all the difference.

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