This is my first post. I have been a lurker on the jehovahs-witness forum for several weeks now. I am not now, nor have I ever been a JW. However, like many others on the site, I have a friend who is. I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your threads on helping people to leave the organization. I particularly like Mindchild's recent series on that topic. Please keep these going... you are providing guidance to those of us who would like to help.
I began to research the organization when I learned of my friend's association. Like most people who have had little association with JWs beyond the occasional visit (non existent in my current neigborhood), I had no idea how the organization worked or the extent of the pain it has caused. I don't know if my friend actually wants to leave, but he seems to be thinking about it. I would like to be able to assist in a kind way and to use techniques that help, rather than scare. I am reading the books recommended here on leaving the organization and on mind control. However, your experiences are valuable. The post about the number of people who are using this site to gain understanding and get educated is right on, I think.
I may not post often, since I'm still trying to make sense of all of this, but rest assured, you are helping.
Nimue