Jw mother came to visit

by Aussie Oz 9 Replies latest jw friends

  • Aussie Oz
    Aussie Oz

    My JW mum came to visit

    I have said before that she is the only sane JW i know...

    She is 70 now and just returned from a holiday to england to see her mother (91). She went with her daughter who is disassociated for some years now.

    Anyway, she and her husband (Faded, not my dad nor stepfather) made a quick trip down by car from queensland. They stayed 3 days, with me (disfellowshipped) and spent a good day visiting her youngest daughter (not baptised) and her (worldly husband) and 3 kids. The house was decorated for xmas, complete with tree.

    During the visit she also talked to my (worldly) wife about various personal issues in her life and on one occasion remarked that my ex wife (baptised) was not a good JW.

    I think it is totally wrong that families have to be broken up into labels.

    My mother obviously does not agree with the WT society on shunning her family, and for this she has my wife and my imense respect. I cannot bring myself to tell or hint in anyway that the 'truth' is not the truth. I see no real good for her in that. Perhaps she already knows its a lie but it is her only social contact as all we children are spread over this country and she is quite isolated in a rural area. Thank goodness her elders dont know about the visits or i am afraid they would put pressure on her...

    At no time in the visit was anything JW discussed or raised, and for a short time it was just family. The way it should be.

    oz

  • GrandmaJones
    GrandmaJones

    Awwww, that's so nice. Why can't all families be that way? Lucky you.

  • Aussie Oz
    Aussie Oz

    thankyou!

    she is a great lady, even let me and the wife stay at her home before we were married

    (seperate rooms) but that was my idea to respect her.

    i wish you all the best with yours

    oz

  • Aussie Oz
    Aussie Oz

    thankyou!

    she is a great lady, even let me and the wife stay at her home before we were married

    (seperate rooms) but that was my idea to respect her.

    i wish you all the best with yours

    oz

    sorry about the double post...i just worked out how that happens! Its by clicking submit again when your internet is being real slow!!!!

  • Iron Head
    Iron Head

    Good stuff, Oz. Enjoy it

  • Black Sheep
    Black Sheep

    That was really nice Oz. I wish you many more times like that.

    Cheers

    Chris

  • Broken Promises
    Broken Promises

    What a cool mum. You're so lucky to have her. Glad you had a great time together.

  • yesidid
    yesidid

    That you did not feel the need to tell her the truth about the "truth" shows you are your mother's son.

    She respects your entitlement to views different to hers and you are doing the same for her. Good son.

    I can understand you are the envy of many.

    y

  • mamalove
    mamalove

    Wow, that is really nice. I wonder if some older people mellow with age and wisdom? Something perhaps some of us have to look forward to?

  • Lozhasleft
    Lozhasleft

    This is good to hear Aussie Oz and I do hope your mum liked your new home.

    Loz x

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