When do dubs learn?

by BritBoy 2 Replies latest jw friends

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  BritBoy

  Good Monday Morning to you all!

  Some of you may remember my post a couple of days ago about my Dub friend who I raised the issue of the UN with. Well I shall call her C. C is a LARGE girl to say the least. She is huge and extremely unhappy about it but refuses to believe that constant snackng on sweets and crisps has anything to do with it... C called me last night and said that she had attended the Arse-embly for the weekend and she was actually very low. I asked her why and she said she felt lonely. I asked her to explain and she said: "Well when I left the JW's for those few years (she was FREE for 5 years and then returned...never DF'd) I had no problem meeting men and havig fun". C was married to a Greek chap who she met at work back in South Africa... she married him to get an EC passport in order to move to Blighty. Something I was against big time! She later discovered that she had an English grandparent and could make a claim that way. This chap smacked her around a lot and she ended up divorcing him (thank god). C is 27 yo this year. Now when she left her husband she had a couple of months of being "naughty" and she dabbled in *shock, horror* fornication and even once had a smoke with me! Ahhh C was fun in those days! Now she tells me she had some "brothers" sncikering at her during the Arse-embly and she feels she is never going to meet a nice "brother". She said when she was not a dub she had so much fun, but knows this was Satans way of snaring her...BY ENJOYING LIFE? Anyway, the long and short of it is that I suggested she re-think her dub status. She got VERY upset by that and immediately went down the line of "If I am meant to meet a man, then Jehovah will provide one". FUCK ME BACKWARDS WITH A BASEBALL BAT. I said "For god's sake C, do you REALLY think with all that is going on in the world and even in the borg, that Jah has "Should C have a husband or not" on his agenda??? She did not reply. But she is so sad. I left her with the thought.. does she feel the "truth" has set her free?

  When will they learn? If ever?!!!!!
  Will keep you posted!

  Brit xxx

  They wouldn't have made the cane if you weren't meant to break the rules!
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  SYN

  ARGH! I think your friend's thinking has gone into an infinite loop of GUILT. This is how the WT enslaves most people - with guilt. That is all you need to make somebody do ANYTHING.

  Tell your friend she needs to start eating properly, otherwise not only will she never meet guys, but she will endanger her health. It's important to cut hardcore glucose from your diet, especially if you're overweight. If she feels peckish, tell her to snack on an apple or a banana, even. The fructose in the fruit will make her feel better instantly, and won't just land up on her hips and things like the glucose in chocolate.

  If God didn't want us to *fornicate*, then why the hell did he give us sexual desire? EVERY HUMAN BEING has it - it's no sin, no mistake, no bloody accident. What I don't understand is how people can argue with their OWN CHROMOSOMES.

  Just my little rant! How are things BritBoy? It's so amazing that you came from the same KH as I did! Cool!

  "I see no good reasons why the views given in this volume should shock the religious sensibilities of anyone." -- Charles Darwin, The Origin Of Species, 1869.
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  BritBoy

  SYN

  Things going well here!! (Got a job interview tomorrow...shhhhhhh)

  Next time I am in SA we shall have to meet up!! Although with me going back to Uni for a couple of years it may not be for some time!! Besides I hate SA with a passion second to none... so perhaps you better pull your finger out and come visit the UK!!!!

  Got some fag hags you may be interested in... couple of Doctor Fag Hags... Mmmmmm brain is ticking over now!

  Brit xxx

  They wouldn't have made the cane if you weren't meant to break the rules!