a friend of mine x jw like myself, works as a window cleaner on a road where a family of active jws live. he watched a situation develop over a say a year were they started a bible study with a local neighbour and eventually he became a jw himself.
now this fella was a bit of a odd bod, looked odd, dressed odd, generally made people feel a little uncomfortable, but not a bad person lets use an often used phrase in england "an eccentric".
well of course he showed a little bit of interest, pherhaps he was lonely. well of course he was really fussed over by is local jw neighbours, bible study,. invited round for tea, taken to the meetings.
even my friend x jw said "you really saw a change in him, he looked really normal" (whatever that is")
of course once he was baptised the loving witnesses started to back off, they started to talk to him on there door step not inviting him in, then eventually they would talk to him through a closed window.
then this week my friend turned up on the street to do his window round and the jws are moving out.
so he approaches the so called "brother" and asks why he's moving out (he fell away not df)
"oh we can't put up with being bothered all the time by the brother up the road, he's always coming round, he's got to find his own spiritual feet"
my friend smiled to himself an thought "typical witnesess !!!"