I've been watching Big Love. It's interesting to watch it with a SSBM (still somewhat believing mate) in the room. The last couple of episodes seeing Barb flex her independance and free will was interesting. My wife was cheering her own, yet doesn't see the correlation between being stuck in a Mormon religion and being stuck in the JW religion.
And this past episode the big A was mentioned... no, not Armageddon but apostate!
As wacky as the Hendricksons are, they fit in better in society than most JWs. They hold political office, celebrate the holidays, own shares in a casino. Their biggest thing is the polygamy.
The biggest difference between Mormons (in real life and the H. family depicted in this show) and JWs is that Mormons want to fit in with society. They hold high ideals and morals but they want to be part of the system. They want to make a difference in politics. They want to serve their country in the military. They want they're kids to excel in education.
JWs seek to isolate themselves. They thrive on being different and persecuted.
That's why Mormons are slowly, over time, becoming more and more accepted, I think. Throw out their wacky beliefs and some of their more strict rules (alcohol, caffeine, etc) they're just your next door neighbor or workmate. I think that makes it frustrating for ex-mos. They have a lot of the same complaints about the Mormon church that ex-JWs have against the WTS but as time goes by and more and more people are more accepting of the Mormons, they shrug off the complaints of the disgruntled ones, whereas JWs are still quirky, backwards, irritating and weird enough to make most people wary of them, making it actually easier for ex-JWs to get a hearing ear when speaking of the cultishness of the organization.