That is the opinion of FlyingHighNow and I agree: http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/206177/2/A-Lurker-taking-a-step-out-of-the-shadows
and this is the link to that article: http://www.freeminds.org/support/restoring-family/how-i-helped-my-family-leave-jehovah-s-witnesses.html
I have started a new thread for the many new ones coming on the board at this time.
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