For some reason, I couldn't post on your thread. It's been happening quite frequently, so it's easier to just start this new thread.
WELCOME CHASE. I look forward to hearing your story. You'll find the members here are all over the board. There is a general push to keep things honest, so when a member get's a bit hyperbolic, someone will generally offer a balanced view. It's best to just be tolerant. People are working through a lot of issues here, and everyone is at a different spot on that road.
Welcome again!
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