Just got off the phone with an old friend from Montana. Her teenage son, mother, and a niece and nephew were all killed in a car accident one year ago tomorrow. She decided to use the money she got from life insurance and settlement to build a house for the family. Her uncle, a brother, volunteered to build it at a reduced rate and promised to have it done by the end of 2010.
He took all her money and never finished the house. He hasn't even paid the sub-contractors. He doesn't have a dime of her money left and wants her to give him more even though he never works on the house. She has no money left. He uses psychological terrorism to manipulate her and try to force her to agree to his demands. She decided to pay him a visit yesterday with a lawyer. What was the response of him, his wife, and this girls elder grandpa? "You can't take him to court! He's a brother!!"
My advice: Take his ass to court and take everything he owns--including whatever fillings he has in his teeth. She said once this is all done she is going to the elders in his congregation to report his unchristian behavior. She has been inactive for years. I told her not to be disappointed if the elders didn't do anything.
How many times have JW's used these loopholes the society commands to abuse their fellow man?