Paradox is one of those words that is difficult to understand (for me).
I was told this story by A co-worker. A young man purchase A new car,
his dreadful mother-in-law ask to borrow the new car, reluctantly he agree.
She drives A mile and lose control and crash down A hill and die. The young man
lose his dreadful mother-in- law, but also his new car,"Paradox".
So when one is DF, they lose there family and friends, but they
gain freedom. Maybe I am reaching here with the Paradox, but what
do you think.