We create our own happiness by choosing to believe something is worth our belief

by Terry 5 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Terry
    Terry

    Do any of us want to believe we have no sense of humor?

    Or, would we want to believe we were boring and our opinions were silly mush?

    Why would we seek to believe nothing we do matters and that we are just taking up space and using up air?

    Would not any of us prefer to think of ourselves as having value, worth, merit and a lot to offer?

    The answer to any of those questions would depend on our sense of VALUE.

    For instance, people who think highly of their talent, personality and self-worth tend to be ambitious in creating opportunity

    to exchange talent, ability and hard work for a career, wealth and perhaps a reputation of importance.

    Those with less obvious talent might spend time volunteering in some capacity teaching, caring for sick, taking meals to shut-ins or

    helping those less fortunate.

    A healthy self-belief in one's ability TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE in the lives of others improves life and gives satisfaction to all.

    Why would anybody choose to believe they had little or no personal worth or value except as a drone, a slave or a mere obedient automaton?

    Would this not be unhealthy and self-defeating with overtones of dysfunction and depression?

    Welcome to belief in the theology of Jehovah's Witnesses!

    A JW is a "grunt."

    Their value consists of statistics. How many hours going door to door? How many magazines placed and bible studies conducted? How many meetings attended?

    They have one foot in Armageddon destruction and the other on a banana peel!

    "What have you done for me lately?" Is the question the Governing Body seems to ask every day.

    The JW member is not even valued as a thinking person with personal needs and a life of their own that matters!

    How do we know?

    No provisions are made for that in this religion!

    Education above the legal requirement is practically forbidden. A career or course of self-improvement is considered selfish and unnecessary; it indicates willfulness and rebellion, of all things!

    Care or concern for others outside the religion is preposterous! Volunteering for a women's shelter or Meals on Wheels is strictly out of the question.

    Improving the community by participation in PTA or Community politics is verboten.
    Voting in an election as a civil duty and responsibility will get you ostracized.

    WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THIS BELIEF?

    Who would willingly and knowingly CHOOSE such a view of "self" as something worthy of belief?

    ONLY A DYSFUNCTIONAL and UNHAPPY person would.

    There is no sense of personal worth for this individual when it is not connected to a treadmill of demands, quotas and obedience.

    Without being told what to do, how to do it and how far to think and when to stop thinking, the dysfunctional JW is considered to be only worth killing at Armageddon.

    HAPPINESS is beyond their reach.

    If you don't believe this, try looking at their faces as they sit in the Kingdom Hall or when they pay their bills out of low-paying jobs or when they discipline their kids for wanting to be happy like other kids. Observe their lack of joy when Christmas comes or a neighbor invites them to a birthday party.

    CHOOSING to be JW is to choose JOYLESS existence.

    HAPPINESS is out of the question.

  • hoser
    hoser

    You hit the nail right on the head Terry!

    they choose their miserable existence

    Hoser

  • wobble
    wobble

    When I was a kid of about 8 or 9 I saw a photograph in a special edition newspaper produced to sell to the conventioners leaving the Assy. site.

    It was a candid shot taken along the stands of the football ground as the Bros. ans Sis. sat listening to the talk.

    It struck me then that without exception they all looked miserable ! (Sorry there was an exception, the kid about my age in the foreground who had his head back , fast asleep !)

    I rationalised that nobody sitting on those bum-numbing seats would look happy, but it should have made me think, J's Happy People, WHERE????

    It truly is a miserable religion.

  • designs
    designs

    The Glass is Half Empty Crowd....

  • clarity
    clarity

    Great point Terry.

    The borg kept us in line by repeating words like these,

    "considering that others are superior to you"!

    "if anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing he is deceiving himself"

    "be led along with the lowly things"

    "deaden your body"

    "browbeat your body"

    "no one is good"

    humble yourself humble humble humble humble humble.....

    c

  • Terry
    Terry

    If you take block of dry ice and lay out on a table for awhile something happens.

    It starts to disappear before your eyes in a cloudy haze called "sublimation."

    This also happens to people who sit regularly inside a Kingdom Hall. There personality, confidence, happiness and sense of self begin to "sublimate".

    What is left in the end? Who or what is sitting in that uncomfortable folding chair listening to the mind-numbing counsel to obey?

    The illusion of a person.

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