jerome

by larc 7 Replies latest jw friends

  • larc
    larc

    Jerome,

    I am going to assume that everything you say is true. Now let us summarize the situation.

    You are an 18 year old male who has kind of a general Christian orientation, although you are not a member of a particular church. Your 18 year old girl friend is a Jehovah's Witness. Her mother is disfellowshipped but still believes it. She is nice to you, but talks bad about you to her daughter behind your back. You have done research on the religion and found out that it has some problems. You have told your girl friend about these problems, but they had no effect on her. To her these problems don't matter.

    Now, in light of all this, why does it matter how the Governing Body live, a subject you brought up. Do you think this will make a difference to your girl friend?

    With the summary of what you have been through, why do want to be with your girl friend? I will stand by my first post to you. Find a new girl friend. You are wasting her time, your time, and our time. Your relationship ain't gonna work. Move on.

  • ashitaka
    ashitaka

    Larc's right, Jerome. Count your losses and move on. It'll only get worse for you the longer you prolong this tepid romance. She's not going to change for you my friend, and I suggest not changing for her, unless you enjoy being unhappy.

    ashi-Of the 'benefit of the doubt' class

  • Rummy1
    Rummy1

    Jerome:
    What did I tell you guy?........"DONT GET INVOLVED"
    Or should I say Unshackle yourself , sack it .. Move on!
    Larc: well said ...........

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Hey jerome,these guys have hearts of gold,that is why I am very protective of them,and other buds on this board.They will cut you some slack,I won`t...OUTLAW,of "don`t fuck with my friends" class.

  • larc
    larc

    OUTLAW,

    Hey buddy, don't you worry about me. I will give people all kinds of slack, but in the long run, no one fucks with me and gets away with it!

    Now, with that said, I am willing to work with Jerome, if he is willing to work with me. He can even send me a private email since my email is always open.

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Hey larc,Nice to hear from you,your a good man.We are fortunate to have you here...OUTLAW

  • Prisca
    Prisca

    Jerome,

    Listen to larc. He may be an old fogey but at least he knows what he's talking about!!

  • rekless
    rekless

    Jerome,

    Best to find another love....You have to be carefull of falling for an exJW, due to the fact they may @ sometime go back ...If you are interested in a JW the only way it will work is if you become one and give your braine to the org. Now that will work just become a Jehovah zombi.

    Choices,choices,choices! "Oh what a web we weave." "'Come in,come in,'the spider said to the fly."

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