Here is a great list of questions that help identify if we have been affected by a cult....
Does any of it sound familiar?
This has been taken from an interesting and informative site called:
As a general outline we use the following criteria that defines a cult or mind control situation:
Removes your freedom of choice
Separates you from the familiar
Alters your belief system
Disallows questions and criticism
Expects worship and obedience
Promises unattainable outcomes
The group is right everyone else is wrong
Overbearing friendship and love