I used to feel nervous when I was out and would encounter a JW. Instantly, I would feel guilty that I wasn't doing more spiritually. Seems like the conversation would always go the the KH and JW's topic and the usual "We miss you, blah, blah, blah..." I am happy to say--- That is NOT the case anymore!
Now, when I run into a witness and they ask how I am doing, I say, "The whole family is doing great. My oldest son is in college at XYZ University. He is really being responsible with his schoolwork and loves being in a dorm. My youngest is getting straight A's and in the National Jr. Honor Society. My job is going well and the hubby's been working overtime at his job. Life is terrific! "
I say all of this because I want them to know I am NOT attending and my life is going pretty damn good!! I had a conversation recently with a sister and I asked her if her hubby was still working with this particular law firm as a Paralegal and she said, "Yes, but you know, the world is so iffy, we don't know if that will last much longer." That Oh, woe is me and the world talk irritates me so bad.
Thanks for letting me share my thoughts with you.