I have a cousin that is born-in but never went for the JW's throughout her entire childhood and until this day, she's 30 now. Her dad is an uber elder and her 2 sisters are very devoted as well. Now she's talking about "going back" to the KH etc because she thinks now this is the place she belongs.
My question is: She's living with someone "in sin"; has a FB page; goes to rock/rap music concerts all the time etc. How long would she be allowed to hang out at the KH with folks before they told her she needed to "progress"? Would she be allowed to attend meetings indefinitely without doing any field service? Wouldn't she be viewed as a "fornicator" since she's living in sin? She's not DF'd, never baptised. Not sure why now she wants to go back (it maybe just a passing thought since her grandma died earlier this year) but I'm just wondering how much she's going to have to change her lifestyle or does she at all?
Will the other elders besides her elder dad put their foot down and say she needs to be married etc or just let her go along on her own terms forever?
I can't imagine her going out in service ever again and isn't that pretty much required if you are to be considered a member of the congregation?