I thought this article and video was good about a man that left the LDS/Mormons, and then his wife reacted EXACTLY the way that many asleep JW mates act, going through the same kind of disbelief, shock, feelings of betrayal, etc.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Zr3JYFX1Czg
So many of us on here can relate- and also dream that our spouse will react as well as his eventually did.
Source article: http://www.jwstruggle.com/2012/01/a-time-for-everything