I thought this article and video was good about a man that left the LDS/Mormons, and then his wife reacted EXACTLY the way that many asleep JW mates act, going through the same kind of disbelief, shock, feelings of betrayal, etc.
So many of us on here can relate- and also dream that our spouse will react as well as his eventually did.
Source article: http://www.jwstruggle.com/2012/01/a-time-for-everything