How did you change after you left?

by Norcal_Sun 1 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Norcal_Sun
    Norcal_Sun

    Hello all,

    I have been pondering how destructive cults tend to try to model a personality type for their members as described in Combatting Cult Mind Control. I know I have a few personality traits that seem to be a direct result of this. I was a born-in member, and now that i have been faded for a little while I am starting to see these personality traits that need to be corrected such as keeping quiet so as not to offend others and also not putting much weight in my own opinion.

    So I want to know how did you all change after you left The Lie? What personality traits or quirks did you need to change?

  • DonutZ!
    DonutZ!

    I finally felt I could be myself, my true self. I'm still working on changing the habit of being 'the head' of of my wife. I'd rather be whipped by her than be a control freak.

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