I have been Shunned again

by radar 8 Replies latest jw friends

  • radar
    radar

    I was reading through the local newspaper the other day, when to my astonishment, I saw a full colour picture of a JW couple. They had won the Valentine of the year competion, run by an international food Store. The picture showed, the happy couple recieving a presentation of a bottle of Champaine and some flowers from the store manager.

    I shared the article with my wife, and we smiled, because we knew this couple very well, they belonged to our former congregation. We guessed that they probably had drifted away from the JWs.

    Well the very next day, I happen to be leaving a local government building where I work, when just in front of me was this same JW who was in the newspaper the previous day! he turned around and saw me, in a reflex action he half lifted his hand in a gesture of acknowledgement. I called out his name, thinking I have at last found an JW who I can speak with.

    Nooooooo response, He rushed out the building to his van ( he was delivering some post). my car was right next to his. By the time I had got to my car, he was inside his, I looked at him through his side window, he would not turn his head my way, it was if I was some sort of Medussa and he would turn to stone the instant he looked at me. He drove off!!

    Now am I missing something here. Am I the Devil incarnate?
    Or does the watchtower now approve of Valentines day?
    Either way, this guy is more frightened of me than the local elders.

    Oh well, its a funny ole life ain't it?

    Radar

  • JBean
    JBean

    Stuff like this always happens when you least expect it, doesn't it. I ALWAYS say to myself afterwards..."I should've said this or that..." If you ever see this guy again, you should yell "Hey, how was that bottle of bubbly you received for Valentine's?" ahaha!

  • freeman
    freeman

    Don’t feel too bad Radar, I was shunned by someone that was already Dfed and all I am is inactive. Go figure.

    Freeman

  • roybatty
    roybatty

    Are you sure that he knows that you're no longer a JW? Maybe he doesn't and he's trying to keep a low profile from those whom he thnks are still JWs.

  • safe4kids
    safe4kids

    Freeman Sorry, but that is too funny!

    Radar, I agree with Roybatty, maybe he doesn't know that you're no longer a dub. For awhile after I DA'd, I would avoid any witness I saw but I had no way of knowing if they were still in or not. Now, I relish running into them and watching them squirm!

    Dana

  • Nicolas
    Nicolas

    Often, the inactive people continue to follow the doctrin of the WBTS even if they don't go to the Kingdom Hall anymore. I know it because that's what I did during 5 years until the year 2001, when I finally found the real truth about the Jehovah Witness.

    Black holes are where God divided by zero.

  • LDH
    LDH

    Good one!

    I have to agree with Roy--for all they knew you were on 'elder patrol'--you know, the program that all the minions in the hall report ANYTHING of interest to the elders!

    If you really want to re-establish a relationship with another ex-JW couple, send them a congrats card--tell 'em you saw em in the paper.

    That should work.

    Good Luck,
    Lisa

  • patio34
    patio34

    Their loss, Radar.

    WTBS: Quit peeing on my leg and telling me it's raining.
  • radar
    radar

    Thanks for all your thoughts on this amuseing incident.

    The man in question, definately knows that I am dissfellowshiped, I was his Book study conductor, before they kicked me out!!

    Roybatty/safeforkids/Nicolas/LDH, your response reveals a generous spirit, unfortunately unfounded.

    I should have given a little more detail there.

    Some months ago I got shunned by a JW who recently served a term in prison for child molesting.
    This was one occasion when I was glad of the Watchtower's Shunning Policy.

    Can't wait to see what my next encounter will be.

    Radar

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