I come for a Catholic family and have grown up in this religion.
I spent lots of time at church as a child and always liked going to church. My mother took me to church, later asked me to go and I happily went.
To me god has always been an understanding and forgiving god and none I had to fear. I always felt comfortable. I cannot remember that anyone tried to frighten me.
My attitude towards the Catholic church changed when I was 14 and it was time for my confirmation and I was forced to confess my sins to our priest in the confessional.
I had always dreaded this moment as my sins (what kind of big sins can you have committed by the age of 14?) have so far been a topic of me and god within my prayers and I simply did not see a reason why suddenly there should be a priest be the one to forgive my sins.
The priest and my family put pressure on me and so I had to do this but did not really know what to tell him because for me all had been "sorted" between me and god.
Anyway, I was told by the priest I simply had to do it or there would be no confirmation. And suddenly the confirmation was no longer my choice but obligatory - my mother insisted.
I still remember how awful I felt in that confessional. It seemed so wrong.
From that point I more or less stopped going to church.
Meanwhile I officially left the Catholic church as a member as I disagreed with many of their ideas, also on women in ministry, the pope's views etc.
I now consider myself as a Christian - as simple as that :)