I spoke with a sister who pioneered over 30 yrs.
I felt sorry for her because she had lost her husband who was dF'd over a decade. She was only married for a brief time with him.
She dealt with this loss with the thinking that Jehovah will provide her with a new husband, a house, and income for her security. Of course this would happen if a brother her age suddenly lost his wife and became a widow. Funny how all of this works, and is spiritual thinking.