Sab said:
I know you are used to doing it, but you don't get to define how life works, no matter how many agree with you.
Uh, if everyone agrees that life works in a particular manner, then that IS how it works. Look up social contract sometime, as it's one of the few examples where "an appeal to popular opinion" IS valid (another example is voting, where each person gets one vote; group opinion wins).
Your moral compass has been pointing in only a single direction for quite some time now. Life is a world that we make and we can change it any time we like. It helps to realize that instead of falsely claiming that life lives us instead of the other way around.
Maybe you missed that the topic is related to group dynamics of elders on a JC, and not freedom of the individual? Maybe you missed that the elders invited him to the JC committee, not vice-versa? Even if you pitched the question as a show of hands, the opinion of 3 outweighs that of the 1. If the person doesn't like those odds, the answer is simple: go somewhere else and find another group, or go your own way. It really IS that simple.
In a group like JWs, the individual doesn't make the rules; the elders are simply cogs in a massive machine, and hoping to move up as a result of following the rules (which is way to rise in any organization). For all members (including random members of the GB, eg Ray Franz), you either go with the group or you're out.
That's how real-life works, Sab, whether you're talking JWs, politics, military, the business/corporate world, etc. The key is to learn how to survive as an individual INSIDE a group, AKA learning to play the game, and hopefully not selling out your soul to do so.