(cannot get the italics to turn off for some goddam reason).
Who is going to rule over mankind during the millennial reign? Jesus + 144,000 humans.
And in Revelation 21 it describes Kings of the nations, who must be earthly human rulers. So God has always purposed that humans effectively rule themselves, right?
Any parent naturally expects their child to grow up and leave home and manage their own life and family and household. Why wouldn't God, portrayed as our spiritual father, not want the same for the human race?
Once the human race is brought back to perfection, why wouldn't God want us to govern ourselves independently without God having to be some kind of autocrat or King?
Isn't the desire for autonomous, self-rule completely natural, as natural as the desire of a child to leave its parents and rule its own life, within reasonable limits and in accordance with the law?
Why wouldn't God be better of stepping back and just acting like some kind of universal policeman instead of an autocrat, confining his role to assigning angels to punishing those who cause evil and suffering, as any normal human society does to preserve law and order and maintain normal civil society? We know from the Bible that God was obsessed with giving laws in the OT and punishing transgression so why do that for only ancient Israel and not all the world? What is more natural than to set certain limits on individual free will in the form of sensible laws? This is why the free will argument totally fails. Humans are only asking God to do what any conscionable person would do and what any normal, healthy society does = set some limits of personal freedom to prevent evil and suffering, and punish the evildoer.
From all this it seems that if there is a God and there is some issue of universal sovereignty going on then it appears it is not about whether humans can govern themselves independently of God or not but a question of when they could do this successfully independently of God. It seems that eventually God must have fully intended humans to manage themselves without his having to 'govern' them but it was a question of timing?
(apologies for the rather incoherent ideas quickly cobbled together here, its late and I've had some wines. Good night)