I cant’s figure out my dad! He is a hardcore JW (Elder since 1984) I am also a current MS but just waking up. My father went back to our country of origin and he is currently serving in an isolated area with my mom. I decided to stay in the states and move to the southeast with my wife and we are both doing well.
In the early 2000’s my mom needed a procedure to seal a spinal leakage by using her OWN BLOOD. The purpose was to get the blood injected in the area and let the body do its job and form a natural seal.
The irony is that my parents and I NEVER MENTIONED anything to any elders because we knew what possible repercussions could come out of this. What is intriguing, is that fact that we sat down and analyzed the subject and concluded that the blood was not being used to nourish my moms’ body and that in reality this was a safe procedure since she was using her own blood.
I was amazed to read this same argument in Ray’s book 9 years later, for the first time! With scriptural support.
But here is my problem… my dad continues to be a hardcore JW! He will not change his overall view towards blood, he continues to accept our 607 date, etc…
I recently called him right after the annual meeting to tell him about our great new light. When I mentioned the change there was a loooong pause over the phone, and all he said was to wait and see what happens. (Did not say wait in JEHOVAH)
But he still believes that the WTBTS is the chosen one!!
Is he giving me mixed signals? Should I keep digging? Is he playing the same WTBTS double standard with me? Or do you think it would blow up in my face if I keep talking?
What are your thoughts?