So, my ex-wife, which if you remember me fought hard together with the JW's to (unsuccessfully) wrest control over our child. We're now 3y later, my legal rights have been affirmed a few times in court.
A few months ago, my ex asked me if I was okay with her having someone else in her life. I said "sure, I don't care at this point what you do with your life, just let me know what happens so I can help our daughter with any transitions". She then goes on to confide in me and says she has slept with someone else over the last year. I looked confounded and asked her if she remarried. She said 'no, I've had two boyfriends since we broke up'. She seemed happy to get that off her chest. I know from my daughter she still does all the fun JW-stuff like prayer, meetings and field service. My daughter is very happy to do Christmas and Halloween and Easter with me, although she knows mommy doesn't do it.
A few weeks ago my daughter (who is 3) starts talking about the baby boy in mommy's house. I thought at first it must have been a friend's kid sleeping over or whatever. Eventually it comes out that "mommy has a baby boy in her belly, like J. (my gf who I have an 8m old baby with)".
So my ex is sleeping around, getting pregnant without being married and still goes do the pretend-JW with the (father elder) family. And I'm the apostate? We'll see what happens when she starts showing more signs but I am stacking up on the popcorn.