Holy shit!
I hate how this always come back on the person who was hurt- you should be forgiving, you should make changes, you, you, you!
No, the disgusting filth that dare touch ANYONE without their consent should change, so the guy feels guilt and it's all okay now? This is why I left along time ago because everytime I read one of these stories, or heard a news special, or heard it from one of the brothers I knew that something was wrong. How could the almighty sovereign of the universe blind himself to the injustices in his own house?
And at that moment was when it all clicked- it could only be one answer: he doesn't care about people who are violated. He cares about people who hurt others as long as they fake well enough to never be detected as hypocrites.
Thanks for sharing this post.