It's been one of those days

Comatose

Since still in family conspires with other friends before making a move, when it rains it pours. Been a real crappy day. Wife is depressed, I'm frustrated. Oh well, it's part of it I know. Seems everyone reads into things more than there is and then makes judgments and jumps to conclusions.

The hard part for me is I can't respond like I should. I feel like I'm representing. I don't want to give anyone the means to say I'm an angry apostate. So we just bend over and take it. I can deal for a while, but not indefinitely. Trying to help the wife keep her chin up. Just venting.

BizzyBee

Venting is good. Part of the deal.

sarahsmile

Yeap! understand some times it can run into weeks.

zeb

"reads into things more than there is.." sounds like typical jw's as they have little else to do. Do these family drop in and then start?Do they ring you up use emails?

On the phone you can see what the number is calling and not answer.

Emails--delete.

After work Friday take the mrs out for anice dinner then go to a Motel where you will have arranged flowers on the bed and then spend the evening massaging each other and making love. One caveat: No mentions of the family.

StAnn

Sorry you're having a bad day. Having to keep your mouth shut and just take it can drive you nuts. Vent all you need!

Oubliette

Sorry you're having "one of those days," Comatose!

I just read an helpful web-article. You might find it beneficial:

How to Deal With Impossible People