Ok I am finally getting the big picture. It was a huge explosion of emotion and a lot of my preivous topics were sketchy becuase I really couldn't get the big picture without all the pieces.
1 Months ago I told his girlfriend that there was some info getting around about her. He came to my house in the middle of the night to force me to lie and say I miss heard it from him. I didn't mis hear it I heard it loud and clear and it came from him.
2 The Outer most likely snooped through the browser histrory of a shared terminal to get a adress to photobucket and the to here. He somehow connected the accounts via looking through the script.
3 The Outer most likely recorded me at work witout my knowing. Most likely using his phone as he accidently volunteered that info when I confronted him. I tought he had a recorder but he snaped and volunteered to show me his phone as proof. Talk about a freudian slip.
4 The Outer has said that he has a violent streak and has nearly hit me twice plus he has been in anger amangement. Also he was a trouble maker and nearly dfed for it.
5 Found he studies the bible with the boss but the boss did not now he was a Jehovah's WItness. The boss does now and why outing me was such a bad thing. Also how much it has hurt me. The boss simpathized becaused he has changed churches and thanks to the evil internet knows that it's really hard for JW's to exit.
6 After going to my therapist and the Revelation in number 5 I realized fighting him at the hall would be fruitless. I will fight him at work making sure every knows that the outer is a JW and what JW's do to former members that leave for any reason. He won't be counting to much time now.