I'm always dipping into C of C and 'Freedom'.
In Crisis of Conscience, Ray examines the oral sex issue in some detail. He candidly says that this practise did not meet his personal standards but that he was troubled in voting with the majority to enforce a ban on 'rank & file' JW's.
Many of these wrote in to the society to question, in Ray's words; the Scriptural basis for the Governing Body members inserting themselves into the private lives of others in such a way...
Okay, maybe it's just my juvenile mind but it made me chuckle!
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