IMO the most exciting thing you will ever do in "the truth" is to leave !
That's right, no website or RC nu-lite or service meeting letter compares
to the adrenaline rush of waking up, planning your strategic withdrawal,
and then walking.
My tips for a gradual withdrawal are:
-Six months to one year is a good fade schedule.
-Start with missing every third night meeting and then move on to sundays.
-I found it helpful to tell some people in advance when you are not going to be there, for several reasons
- they won't wonder where you are and start to speculate
- the person you tell will feel flattered that you are telling them your business and will be less likely to
jump to conclusions and rat you out to an elder
- it gives the impression you are not trying to hide anything and doing so puts people at ease
Of course, all this does is buy you time -time to fade on your own terms, because by the time they
figure out something of a spiritual nature is wrong you will be strong enough to go through with your
fade, you will see the finish line- your final meeting.
These tips may be useful for a gradual fade rather than stopping cold turkey.
But whatever method you choose it's a wild ride to be sure, but sooooo worth it.
Anybody else got anything they found useful?