My mother was disfellowshipped 20 years ago for taking up smoking again when she was going through difficult times, no one from the new kingdom hall we were attending (had just moved out of state) bothered to help her at all, just gave her a few weeks to quit or be disfellowshipped.
At any rate she has spent the last 20 years in hell, believing she has betrayed her god and hoping she dies before armageddon so she'll have a chance of resurrection!
If someone can tell me where to get access to irrefutable proof of the societys association withe the UN, and their statement regarding their withdrawal, I believe she will see the error of their ways and start to live a full life again. This association is something she has not heard of at all, but I cannot bring it up to her until I have documentation.
Tired of seeing my mom desolate and damned,
raven101