I know this may sound cruel, but run before you're seriously mindf*&ked! He is being disloyal to his beliefs by deep-down wanting a relationship with you. You may be able to win him to you but, more often than not, he will feel guilty about his disloyalty to the JW's and one day say that he cannot even ever speak to you again because his conscience is starting to bother him. And then, where does that leave you - brokenhearted I'm sure. It's best to tell him to get lost for all the previously mentioned reasons. If he later decides to choose you over the JW's, then you can always go back. Never underestimate the power this religion has over people!