flower-
I just want to say that you have my support!!!
by flower 4 Replies latest jw friends
flower-
I just want to say that you have my support!!!
If my parents called up and told me they wanted to see my son, but didn't want to see me, I'd tell them to go f**k themselves.
The JWs seem to adjust the grandparent thing to their convenience, I know my ex inlaws who are jws won't have anything to do woth my kids when they are busy with their own stuff...my children are now considered worldly. But every so often they threaten with going to court for grandparents visitation just to rile me up. Supposedly they are moving to Florida to retire....I can only hope :)
Hi Flower, what a difficult spot to be in. I can sense the hurt and frustration within you.
I like Neon Madmans advice. I was wondering why it is that you have to take him to see them? Is it possible that when they call you and ask you to bring him to them that you could tell them they are free to come visit him anytime? Then maybe you would feel in control of the situation with it being on your turf. Or meet them at some other location, maybe?
((((Flower))))
Nikita
Hey Fran,
Woo-hoo@ your post. I like it. Same thing I've done. Say what you mean. All you could lose is the derision that depresses you if they decide to shun.
ashi