the "Friends" forum

by SpiderMonkey 3 Replies latest jw friends

  • SpiderMonkey
    SpiderMonkey

    Is this just my misconception, or is the "Friends" forum constantly being misused as a place to post anything and everything that someone wants to be "noticed?" Some threads I've seen recently that seem to blatantly ignore the fact that this site contains VARIOUS forums:

    Are all men bad?

    Why is 'women bashing' allowed on this board?

    Nitpicking the JW brotherhood

    Two file sex abuse suit against Jehovah's Witnesses

    Another victim of child molestation by JW's on TV

    Did US always want to get into Afghanistan?

    For those who bash America

    Agreement with American B.S. [OK, all the America threads belong on this list]

    Simon's definition of a troll is?

    ...and now I will use the tired cliche "ad nauseum." I know the initial description of "Friends" reads "discuss anything jw related and meet new friends," but how about these? Child Abuse: "Physical and emotional child abuse, [etc]." Scandal & Coverups: "Investigations into child molestation [etc]." Beliefs, Doctrines & Practices: "Beliefs and behavior." And most importantly, ADULT & DISAGREEMENTS: "Adult related content and ARGUMENTS." (trolls, especially, take note)

    The end result of using the "Friends" forum as a catch-all for everything you want to be seen is that 2 or 3 pages of these topics go by every day, while the other forums move at a crawl (301,743 posts on Friends, at the time of this writing... next highest is Bible Research, with approximately one thirtieth the number of posts). Of course, Friends will end up having the highest percentage of posts anyway. But why are we using a forum entitled "Friends" as a dumping ground for all our beefs? LOL, I know I'm essentially doing that very thing right now. Oh well. If I didn't, the folks that are constantly posting such things here would never see it (sigh). I'm not trying to pick on anyone in particular; just asking if we can all think a bit as to where a thread belongs before automatically posting it under the "catch-all" forum.

  • xenawarrior
    xenawarrior

    I'll be your friend Spider. I have some really cool baseball cards-ya wanna trade? We could play marbles too but you can't have any of my peeries- they're my favorites, but I got lots of steelies.

    And after school we could go play "ding dong ditch"- whatda think?

    Hugs at ya!!!!

    XW

  • BeautifulGarbage
    BeautifulGarbage

    Hey Spider,

    The "Friends" forum was formerly the "Main" forum. Simon changed it a few months ago. The same complaint was made then also.

    Yes, Friends is the catch-all, if you will.

    Some believe that their threads get a much better chance of being read if they are placed in the "friends" forum , formerly known as the "Main" forum. Old habits die hard.

    Whatever.

    Andee

    Edited by - BeautifulGarbage on 3 July 2002 3:19:44

  • SpiderMonkey
    SpiderMonkey

    LOL, Xena... If I'm reading you right, that's my point... Friends is meant to be more of a "fluff" forum, isn't it (no offense to anyone, after all that wouldn't be fluffy)?

    Fluffy be damned: Everyone post your damn thoughts where they GO. You're doing it wrong

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