Seeking a friend

by shalott 7 Replies latest jw friends

  • shalott
    shalott

    Dear Friends,

    I am 25, married (his name is James), and I have a 6-month old son. I am looking for an online friend. I am one of Jehovah's witnesses, and need someone who understands. Most people say my conscience is "too strict"- whatever that means. I don't feel that it should be a problem-- as I don't tell them their conscience isn't strict enough. But it does tend to make friendship difficult-- like when they want to see something that is not only rated R, but violent. I don't want to hurt their feelings, but I just can't watch stuff like that. It scares me. I'm kinda going through a hard time with some people here, and I don't know if it's just my location or what, but to stay strong, I'm going to need someone out there who understands. Please post a follow up, and later we can exchange e-mail addresses.

    Love, Gail

  • moman
    moman

    This is a "proud to be an apostate board", now what was your question?

  • ItsJustlittleoldme
    ItsJustlittleoldme

    Hi shalott and welcome,

    First, I'm not sure if you are aware of this or not, but this board encourages all people here, Current JW's, Ex-JW's, and like me, never a JW..

    It sounds like you may not want to be around here with all the Ex-JW's (you refer to them as apostates). If you still want to socialize with us, we'd love to get to know you. But our conscience felt that you should know that you may be conversing with some people your organization has deemed as 'unsafe'.

    Good day, and god bless

  • Prisca
    Prisca

    Sharlott,

    You're welcome to email me, I am neither da'd nor df'd, but I have been inactive for a couple of years now. I'm 32, and I live in Australia. I was raised as a jehovah's witness, and I don't think I come across as bitter towards my jw experiences.

    I'd love to hear from you, or anyone else that would like to write.

  • Incense_and_Peppermints
    Incense_and_Peppermints

    you've come to the right place.

    [email protected]

    i just talked to you in the chat and thought you sounded really nice. write to me anytime. i will always answer.

  • BugParadise
    BugParadise

    Hi Gail,

    First off I am not a Jehovah's Witness but I have friends who are and many who were. Online is a great way to meet friends especially when you are tied to family responsibilities. I hope it's not a problem if non witnesses reach out the hand of friendship although maybe your conscience does not allow that. Anyway.. Welcome to the board and big hugs!

    ~Bugs

  • Dawn
    Dawn

    Hi Shallot:

    Welcome to the board. My e-mail is hope so you're free to contact me, however, I am DF'd so you should know that up front. From your post it sounds like you are in real need of a friend right now who would not be judgmental towards you - I think you will find some very understanding people here. They helped me tremendously in the past when I needed advice.

    There is another forum that is a Jehovah Witness forum - you can find it at http://communities.msn.co.uk/JustJWs.

    I hope you stick around as I would like to hear how you are doing.

  • Sirona
    Sirona

    Hi Shalott

    I am not DF or DA, so you are free to email me if you wish.

    [email protected]

    Sirona

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