I hope wholewheat isn't gone for good.
I can understand being pissed about being "disfellowshipped" from the board. Ouch! I hope he knows it was a case of mistaken identitiy, and understandably so, due to the fact that he was posting from the same IP address as someone who was removed for being abusive.
As far as him leaving because people were mean to him, I find this hard to swallow. I think wholewheat is a big boy and can handle it, especially because he was dishing it out just as much.
Wholewheat if you gain access to a computer again and come back, I think I can speak for most of us here in saying you would be welcome.