My Hubby and I use to be very generous in donating. We had a brother(s) who embezzled from us and tried to take over a very lucrative account (approx. $150-175,000 a year). We ended up loosing the acc't, but stopped them from getting it. My Hubby was no longer an elder, so this is how the gossip went. Because Brother so & so is no longer an elder, he is refusing to help support our KH. He lacks humility and was being stingy with all of his money to get even. They seemed to forget that when the poor little theives butchered this account that we had worked for 10 years, that we didn't have the funds anymore to donate what we normally donated. DUH. We still donated, but of course, not what we did before, because we didn't have the same financial income. My Hubby never told me what our donations were. My Hubby would donate and then at the end of the month when there wasn't enough to pay the bills, he'd put in enough to cover the expenses.
Now, there wasn't enough donations to cover the KH expenses, so guess what they did. They took the money donated from the society's building fund & worldwide work fund. We know this because one elder when making the acc't announcement told the entire KH that because some brothers get upset with the elders because they have received needed council and due to their lack of humility now hold back donations to Jehovah to get even. Yes, the elders stole from the WTBTS. These elders all backed the embezzelling brother and their actions (stealing from the society) backed this theiving brother.
We were going through enough s#%t at the time, then to be chastized from the platform like that was so hurtful and humiliating. My little daughter at the time (11) understood exactly what they were doing, and wanted to put money in (piggybank savings) so they wouldn't make that kind of announcement again. She was so confused and scared. I told her Dad still donates every month what we can and that's all one can do. THESE ASSWIPES MADE MY LITTLE GIRL FEEL GUILTY. After that night how they paid their bills was no concern to me. OH except, I would donate about $5-10 worth of pennies so the elder acc't servant HAD to count each penny. Yes, it was worth the donation. They later asked the congregation to please not donate in pennies because it took them sooooooooo long to count and do the accounts. Yes, and as the elder said this I smiled to everyone with my big pearlly whites. I felt satisfied as well as sanctified.
All my neighbors are Morman and they pay 10%. I wish we'd only were required to give only 10%. We'd probably be able to support SILENTLAMBS, PAY OUR BILLS, AND HAVE PLENTY IN RETIREMENT. I could be able to go to all the appostate gatherings and meet all you good folks. Right now I've got $10.00 to pay for my daughter's DR. co-pay when I take her in today. But, at least I have that.
Life is a B#%@*h, but it will get better.
Love,
SUSCARRA