Bad Association Seeded Useful Habits

by Beans 8 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Beans
    Beans

    I wouldn`t say I went out of my way to associate with, at the time people who were considered WORDLY but in life there is no avoiding having friends at school or work in DUB life. But once you start going to parties getting a beer here and there as a youth you start to see the light man.

    The Watchtower sees this as the evil thing but I guess that is why they pump all that association crap in the heads of the youth. I say if you have a brain you will see that it is GOOD ASSOCIATION!

    So I say to the youth of the DUB world get out there and PARTY!

    Beans,

    Canadian Overbeer

  • ozziepost
    ozziepost

    G'day Beans,

    Sounds fair enough, but just because something feels good, is it really good?

    Cheers, Ozzie

  • Beans
    Beans

    Hi Ozzie:

    I guess it depends what your talking about :)

  • DanTheMan
    DanTheMan

    1999 WT CD-Rom

    Hits on John 14:6 (way, truth, life) - 287

    Hits on 1 Cor 15:33 - 461

    Hmmm...which scripture would be of more importance to an organization claiming to be the only practicers of true Christianity?

    I guess that's why they call it "indoctrination".

    The cognitive dissonance that comes from getting along much better with your family and workmates than with the dolts at the KH was just another thing that made my 10 years very miserable.

  • rosalyn
    rosalyn

    Party carefully and wisely. Look after your body and soul. And depending on what party you're at watch your wallet or purse.

    rosalyn

  • SYN
    SYN

    I don't drink at all, but I party like a madman! But lately, I've been more interested in rolling in the hay than partying...

  • Dia
    Dia

    Well, I'm not a drinker and just a boringly natural 'goody two-shoes'.

    But I have to comment that that is good advice in the Bible to watch your associations because they can bring you down and confuse and distract you and even have ill effects on your faith.

    The cognitive sonance in this situation is to realize and become aware that it is the brainwashed, cult-like, confused and FIRMLY AND RIGIDLY HELD beliefs of the JWs and the WTS that you have to watch out for.

    There are some nice people there. No doubt. But tread carefully.

    Because 'bad associations' really can 'spoil useful habits' (wonder how that reads in a NORMAL Bible. Irregardless, the point is the same....don't assume it just okay to hang with anybody no matter what. Some 'company' can hurt you. And not because they have a beer, either).

    Some company can be destructive to the love of God which he is pouring out on you so that you might find a clear path to follow.

    Unlike the Witnesses, we must love our neighbors, even our enemies.

    But we don't have to be braindead about it.

    Personally, I've disfellowshipped my close JWs. Not formally, but by action. Because they're just too twisted for me to be around.

    I just can't 'go there' without feeling frustrated and angry. Baffled, mystified, horrified, judged, condemned and outraged. Instead, I will seek the peace of God in fellowship.

    Unlike the Witnesses, I don't have a set of rules here. But you do what you can do and, for some of us, the right thing to do is to 'shake the dust from your feet' and be on your way.

    Twisted souls like this, if you let them, could readily take ALL of your time, to go nowhere.

  • SYN
    SYN

    Well, I love my neighbours very much. Especially the female ones.

  • QUEENIE
    QUEENIE

    I was always labeled BAD ASSOCIATION No MATTER HOW I tried to be what was considered theocratic / good enough and all that JW crap..I still do not know what rule and regulation book they went by and now that I have been a heathenistic demonized apostate for 11 years now I DO NOT GIVE A RATS ASS either...((((HUGS))) to all fellow apostates,,,LINDA LOU aka queenie

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