I have posted here for sometime as 'bang', and in my outrage at the evil that I have witness come from "witnesses", but now I am calming enough that I do not wish to be 'bang', and I have started an account anew as "a paduan". I will post under this name now, hopefully in a calmer manner - I need to heal a bit. Although I have never met you all, I feel it would be deceitful to not say, so I;m saying, and bang will post no more.
I have no idea if there are rules I have broken, but I think you can't change your username once you establish it, and I just don't want to "bang" anymore.
thepaduan (and I really am a paduan, schooled as such)