What is the purpose of being a Jehovah's Witness? I was always told it was to be a witness
of Jehovah, meaning you stood up for and defended your faith, your beliefs. I realize that this is a hard thing for some to do, it takes bravery, knowledge, faith and a convection that what you believe is right. It was always easier for me to defend the rules, regulations, beliefs and so forth of the B'org to another witness than to someone who had never heard of JW's.
My reason for this rant, and sorry it is going to be a rant has to do with the August Kingdom Ministry and the newest information on how to treat those who are D'fed, DA'ed or Apostate. None, of which I am, well at least Im not out on the Apostate thingy as of yet.
I recently invited my son who is 30ish and DF'ed to live with me because he had a string of bad luck and found himself with basically no place to live. I love my son and have never turned my back on him from the beginning of his disfellowshipping, he has always been in my good favor, (major tug on the heart-strings) and I have always treated him the same as the rest of my kids, period.
I work for my niece in her home one day a week babysitting her three girls and half a day cleaning her home. She is married, and her parents are what would be considered strong in the truth. Her father is an elder, and btw one of the few I really admire and he is very involved in her family, aka; he is worried that she and hubby wouldn't be a good dubbs otherwise, she and her hubby work for him in their family business as does all his kids. As did my DF'ed son as long as he could do his work from home and not work in the office.
Well today my niece told me that she has enrolled the three girls in day care full time and that I wouldn't be needed to babysit anymore, but she still wanted me to clean her house. I honestly think this is due to the information in the August KM. Oh did I mention that I also clean the family business office once a week?
The thing that has me upset, besides I will miss the kids, they are so sweet and I probably won't see much of them anymore, is that I honestly don't understand why she didn't just tell me that since I am not going to meetings anymore, or because I have a disfellowshipped person living with me I am not good association or whatever I am. I mean really where is the honesty in that, isn't it part of a good JW to try to bring the wrong doer back to the fold? Isn't that what being a witness of Jehovah is all about? And if you can't or won't talk to your own family how loving of a person are you? Is that Christian love? What's the purpose of going door to door and recruiting worldly persons when you wont even witness to your own family?
I'll go back when pigs fly!
bc :o\ of the dumb and confused class
Edited by - bikerchic on 27 August 2002 22:14:6