Abuse in Family....
I have had two problems with abuse in my family. Both instances were many years ago.
My older Uncle 38, had some financial problems so I decide to help him, he move into my hometown and started to go back to school. He was always around and began to show a lot of interest in my oldest daughter, she was about ten years old at the time. The first real notice of the problem was when he would wear short pants and he was always playing songs on his g uitar to her and taking her across the street to a playground that was in site of our house. After the third time as he left for the playground I confronted him and asked him about her. He said very openly that he was in love with her and he was going to marry her. Well needless to say that was the end of that little program, my Dad and I caught him away from his apartment and loaded all his stuff in a trailer and when he came home we escorted him back to Georgia.
The second was much worse, it was my father-in -law, in his mid sixties. He was totally trusted and we left our two daughters with him and he took full advantage of them. We left him alone with them as a common thing, sometimes weekly. I couldn't convince the family to press charges against him but he had to get some counseling. My daughters are scarred for life and he got counseling. He is passed now, the scumbag bast***.
After that we became very careful about who is with our kids and now our grandchildren.
The best policy is not to leave them alone with anyone, in a group situation is much better and then the opportunity does not present itself.
Don't believe for a second that you are immune to abuse, it is literally everywhere around you.
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