Life, ruddy absurd it can be often, I'll grant many of you that premise, however, does life owe you any favours or do you get out of it, what you put into it? If, like many, you have been told before, that you lack the right attitude to activate positive change within your personal or financial circumstances, just what is it that can cultivate in you, the right kind of changes that further enable you to lead more fulfilled lives?
Well, one thing for certain, is that one answer does not fit all unique circumstances. If you are wondering upon who you are and what your true purpose in life is, at first it is enough to realise that you cannot possibly expect to know all the solutions at once. Transformation and positive change takes time, patience is needed plus a willingness to try out new approaches, new ways of doing things, new intakes in understanding the complete picture represented at any one time.
My advice is to be kind to yourself along your journey. Remember to give yourself pats on the back when deserved, give yourself compliments no matter how small the achievement might seem. Remember to breathe properly and to hold a better posture, pause before any intended action, not acting from haste or in a manner which might represent you, as looking like a right fool. Know when to step away from circumstances, when to give yourself some space. Remember not to set yourself unreachable goals all at once, setting yourself up for potential failure.
At first, set goals upon which you know you can achieve and congratulate yourself in reaching towards that attainment. Only in time, when you feel ready for it, set yourselves greater goals that take you further from your comfort zone. Be realistic in your expectations of yourself and understand the limits of others too. Other people are not you, only you is you, therefore only you can change that upon which you may not nessarsarily like about yourself.
Life can be great, you decide what you want and only you can know best upon how you would like to see life enhancements reflexively acted upon.
Take care and beyond anything else, enjoy yourself. What point is it in life to hide your light under a bushel and to carry on in a role which is totally disagreeable to you? Only you can change yourself, no-one else can do this for you. Positive change and full appreciation and respect for life only comes from within, a desire for change, a desire for improvement. Patience, patience, patience, you'll get there in the end. Good 'luck'!!
Celtic Mark - Cornwall UK