FIRST I WOULD LIKE TO THANK ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR COMFORT AND SUPPORT IN THIS TIME OF MY FAMILYS LIVES. I ALWAYS TRY TO BE UPBEAT AND POSITIVE IN ANY SITUATION, BUT THIS ONE WAS ALITTLE HARD. AND TO JESIKA AND VALIS((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((JES & VAL))))))))))))))))))))
JESIKA IS THE FIRST ONE TO CATCH ON TO WHAT WAS GOING ON WITH ME, AND SHE AND VALIS CALLED ME ON PHONE TO TRY AND HELP.
MOST OF YOU ALREADY HAVE READ WHAT HAPPENED TO MY LITTLE SISTER IN LAW WITH THE ABUSE FROM HER FATHER. THERE WERE A COUPLE OF ATTACKS FROM DIFFERENT ONES IN MY E-MAIL AND ON THE BOARD, BUT THATS OK BECAUSE THEY DONT UNDERSTAND THE WHOLE SITUATION.
BUT THE UPDATE ON IT IS THIS:
She is now in protective custody and an officer called me yesterday to ask me about the situation. This man has a mile long record of violence. He did 15 years for manslaughter and just recently got out because the prison he was in shut down and he was an old timer. (he is 49 yrs old). He is on paroll, and the police have done NOTHING so far. His paroll officer has done NOTHING so far. I dont know how they get away with it, but they have more rights than the one that was abused. Anyway, they are working on the issue of having him arrested and to stand trial. I will be the first in line to testify. The reasons that she is not aloud to stay with us right now are because she has to be protected from this man, and he knows where we live, and the other is because my husband kicked his ass about a month ago for hitting his mother. We have been married for 10 years and I have heard about this man for 10 years because he used to abuse my husband and his brother when they were young. He actually hit his brother in the face with a 2 by 4 when he was 14 yrs old. So this is why i have so much concern for them putting her back in the home..
I was told yesterday that IF he goes back to prison (because he was to serve 25 to life) then we would get full custody of the child. That is my hope. That is what we want. I dont even want her to go back to the mother because she has a mile long record of abuse also with childrens services. I just cant figure out for the life of me why they put these children back in these homes, The caseworker told me it is his job to protect her but they prefer the child to be with their families. YEAH RIGHT! they prefer not to have to pay someone else to take care of them,
Anyway, I think things are looking up. She is doing well and is coming to visit us this weekend again. She is happy and getting some counseling. So again, thank you thank you thank you all for the support and love that you have shown me in this time.
mamashel