BORG choke hold on my wife: what brand of indoctination is she? fear of armagedon or looking forward to new lion in paradise

by goingthruthemotions 4 Replies latest jw experiences

  • goingthruthemotions
    goingthruthemotions

    First let me preface my statements about my wife has such:

    She is allowed to believe what she wants and however blind

    And brainwashed I believe she is….she has her rights.

    Now for my take: she is one of those born is witnesses who

    Will never question the BORG. Just rolls with the new light and

    Believes the watchtowel and awake are just has viable has the bible.

    She know nothing about the bible and nothing about the history of the

    BORG.

    Example: just tonight I was partially asleep on the couch the rest of my

    Family was just relaxing watching TV. So she said….it’s time to go to bed to

    Our boys. And she said she wanted to say a prayer, normally I would do this

    But, she thought I was asleep. So she proceeded to pray, I just wanted to listen

    In.

    She prayed to Jehovah, asked to be more theocratic (whatever that means)

    Ask to watch over those being persecuted in jehovahs name ( Huh? Thought it was jesus….hmmm I missed the bulletin)

    Pray for only Jehovah witnesses out there doing the preaching work.

    No, mention of jesus….just at the end to say…I approach you in jesus name.

    It took a lot for me not to say something about how off base I thought she was,

    But, it’s not worth fighting over anymore. She will never wake up.

    I guess my question is this:

    She was born in to this cult in the late 60’s.

    Spent the 70’s and most of the 80’s being brainwashed

    She faded prior to meeting me….which was around 87’

    Started again ~ 2008. If you were to categories’ her brainwashing

    Model. Where is she stuck, that she can’t see it for what it is?

    What brand of brainwashing is she, since she was active during those periods of time?

    i do believe each period of time your in the BORG there is a special kind of indoctination

    base...especially since the doctrine changes sooooo much.

    Is there hope she will ever wake and see the BORG for what it is….a CULT.

    IT SUCKS BEING MARRIED TO PERSON WHO LACKS THE SKILLS AND MENTAL ABILITY TO

    THINK OUT FOR THEMSELVES AND BE HER OWN PERSON.

  • freddo
    freddo
    Why did she fade? Why did she go back? That is the key to all this.
  • Diogenesister
    Diogenesister
    Is it good old fashioned aging, starting to face our own mortality. Was it guilt about the kids..fear of being responsible for their death if she doesnt give them a 'bible grained conscience'. Even though I was out for ages I still beleived inside, the fear never left (although not born in my timeline similar to your wife's) for me the key was EDUCATION. I did a philosophy degree. End of. However any info you can get to her..science of evolution, history of borg, biblical history, history/beliefs of judaism, zoroastrainism and its relationship to judaism/monotheism. "The bible uncovered" is a good DVD/book to get to plant those little seeds.
  • stan livedeath
    stan livedeath
    so--was she faded when you met and married her ?--did she go back into cult mode after you married her---do you think that is the key to this ?
  • The Searcher
    The Searcher

    "She will never wake up."

    Don't believe that for a minute!

    Ask many of us here if we ever even dreamed of leaving "the truth", and see what responses you get!

    Everyone is open to having their minds changed - just look at the Greek government; they've been persuaded by a "reality" having been put to them IMO. Your wife can have a "road to Damascus" event in her life.

    Live in hope, and let the light dawn on her.

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