Spiritual snobs....a sore spot for me

by terabletera 2 Replies latest jw friends

  • terabletera
    terabletera

    This was mentioned in a post earlier. All of the responses were interesting. Many, however, dealt with the JW mentality and being of spiritual snobbery.

    Oh gawd folks it's everywhere! I hear it in all walks of faith. Some of them are attacks mostly on those of us "choosing to live in the dark" because we do not accept Christianity as necessary for salvation. Some of us don't believe that there IS a salvation. I don't say that Christianity is not truth because to some people, it is. That's totally fine. But the table is turned with cold words when my beliefs, or the lack thereof, are mentioned. I'm not out to deconvert people. But I have been accused of leaving Christ because I wanted to not be 'answering to anyone'. That's garbage. I answer to myself. When I go in to a store, I do not shoplift because..

    A) There may be security cameras watching me

    B) Jesus can still see me

    C) It never crosses my mind.

    The answer, for me is C.

    I've had many many things to deal with in my life. Like many others, I've had a large share of hardships dumped on me. Some that are circumstance, some are other people's fault, some are resident of bad choices made my myself (like not going to college!). But when I turned to my sister one time just to talk about what was heavy on my mind, she is now a very active Christian, I am told that she cannot relate to a person that cannot (or doesn't try to) understand the mind of christ. That I am suffering due to my lack of faith in Christ, bladdy bladdy bladdy. needless to say, I do not go to her for support. I got smacked by the bible enough as a JW. Oh that's another one, she mentions that the only reason I do not now accept christianity is due to being part of a cult like the JWs. I don't think that is true. I went in to that religion with a honest heart. Seeking God not to make myself "feel" better but because I really wanted to love God in the best way that I could. If that is the answer a true heart gets from Christ...no thanks, I won't ask again!

    so I guess I posted this as a result of how I have been feeling lately. It isn't just the JWs that are often spiritual snobs (not all of them are just for the record). They are all around me here where I live. I keep my agnostic points of view very private of course. If I were to let people know where I stood on a lot of things, in my small town, my children would be shunned by their friends parents. Where as, they can go on forever about their love for Jesus and this does not bother me in the least. I don't agree that it is vital to life to have it but I do not tell them this. I do wonder why things are this way. I seem to be far more tolerant of all people now than I was as a christian. The closed doors of the JW religion did not sit well with me that is why I did leave after 8 years in that depressingly bleak world.

    But now, I have absolutley no desire to find God as I did before. So spiritual snobbery is everywhere. Believing that your beliefs keep you safe...fine. Judging others for not sharing those beliefs is what persecution is all about. If it isn't religions attacking one another, its them attacking those of us that do not have one.

    For what it's worth,

    Tera( who doesn't need the fear of god to behave herself)

  • Skeptic
    Skeptic

    Tera,

    Very good point. I have been in many different Christian faiths, and spiritual snobbery is everywhere, even between members of the same faith.

    I think snobbery is everywhere. In the BDSM community for example, different people look down on others. For example, submissives look upon slaves because subs have rights and slaves do not. Slaves look down on submissives because slave requires a much deeper level of submission than submissive does. And I won't even touch the snobbery amoungst Dominants. Or the snobbery about masochists being better than sensuous subs who are better than pain sluts (insult for extreme masochists).

    In Amway, you have snobbery of those who are "serious" and not serious.

    There you have the militant ex-JW vs. the "not serious" ex-JW.....

    It seems when you have a group of people, their will be snobs.

    Richard, who thinks submissives and slaves are superior to Dominants. BTW, I am a Dominant and speak from experience.

  • Grunt
    Grunt

    Hi Terra,
    Yeah, I know what you are talking about. It isn't just Witnesses. My wife's good friend was over for dinner the other night and we were sitting around drinking coffee and talking when religion came up. This is a nice soft spoken lady but she has been helping "Pastor" with his book on Revelation. This guy is the minister of a independant Baptist church and it is growing by leaps and bounds, they are high tech, great music department, something going on for every age group all the time it seems, and like the Witnesses they love to seem to be the only ones on the right track. They love to hammer the Methodists and other mainline religions for not accepting the WHOLE BIBLE, push homeschooling bigtime, and after my experience with the Witnesses they turn my stomach. Anyway, this guy is writing a book on Revelation, he can explain it all. It was funny to hear the old scriptures brought up again, time and time and half a time to them means seven years for the Great Tribulation. The thrust of his book is to explain that the Rapture can occur half way through or at the end of Revelation, not at the beginning as most of his peers think. Gag. Just hearing people pretend to a knowledge and make time predictions on the same scriptures the Witnesses twisted, well, it made me real sorry for all those still willing to bite at that worm.

    The evolutionists are just as narrow minded and just as eager to force their view. Looks like they would have learned to live and let live. Its your business.

    I say believe what you want. Unless it affects me, you are welcome to your own beliefs.

    By the way, you come from a part of the country I sure like. Montana right?

    Grunt

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