Many of you have something like this popping up on the screen even when you don't have your browser on at all...
I found a site that tells you how to kill it...here's the link....
For Windows XP users, when you find "Messenger" under "Services" as instructed, the individual failed to mention that you need to "double click it" to bring up the box. After that, follow the rest of the instructions.
Hope this helps everyone who may have this problem. It's annoying and I'm glad I found a solution to this problem and thought I'd share this to everyone.