LittleToe's Travels II (October)

by LittleToe 7 Replies latest jw experiences

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    This is a continuation of a previous thread:
    http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.aspx?id=41925&site=3

    October was a busy month, and found me conducting various speaking engagements. I've probably mentioned before that the churches, local to my area, have had a long-standing battle with JW's. They have not only found it enthrawling to find how a JW could "come to Christ" so quickly, but also how they might help other JW's free their minds.
    That has been one thing that has truly amazed me, that so many can see how enslaved JW minds are, and how false many of their doctrines are, but seem frustrated in their inablity to penetrate the hardened exterior.

    Through out the month I had special pleasure in talking to a number of youth groups, and was allowed access to one school, where I know there are JW children. I have to say that it was quite a challenge - engaging young minds with an awareness of how damaging something is, whilst helping them to see how awful mockery of another's beliefs is. I certainly hope I deliver something balanced to them.

    This was the month that saw me visiting a few old-people's residential homes, too. I think it so sad, to see the elderly, having lived a long and fruitful live, to end their days couped up. They thrive on visitors, and it was a real joy to meet with them.
    One even taught me a song, based on Psalm 24, which was a novelty.

    Finally, towards the end of the month, I found myself conducting an evening service in one of the local churches (APC). It composed of a number of prayers, a few singings of Psalms, and a 30 minute lecture. It was great to be preaching again, but I can't help notice that it is so VERY different from the JW's.
    One typical example of that is that I was just asked to take the service.
    ...that was it...
    No theme, outline, order of service, Chairman, anything.
    Well, it really was a blast from the past, when I used to hear Public Talks given from individuals own research. Much more natural, heartfelt, and enthusiastic.

    The other thing was the trust.
    These people knew that I had blown off the JW's in a "sermon", and yet they invited me there on full trust, listening to the "word of God" being expounded.
    At no time was I even asked what passage of scripture I might be using, or how I might be applying it.

    It wasn't without incident, however, as the guy who was leading the singing lost the plot.
    He sat down in the middle of the first verse, of the first Psalm, much to everyones horror.
    Then he sat down in the middle of the second singing, too.
    I think the poor guy was having a bad night.

    This was also a month of activity speaking to Mormons. I had met a couple of visiting missionaries in the street (well, I could hardly pass them by, now, could I?), and invited them back to my home. THis lead to a series of Thursday evening discussions, whilst my wife was away at the meetings.
    I hadn't realised, before, that they believe that the Father came to earth and had a body of flesh, too (Doctrine and covenants - addition to the Book of Mormon).
    This was just one of the interesting things that I found out about what they believe.

    Finally, on the subject of October, it was also a month in which I started to face some difficult times at work. A "Head of Department", in another department, decided to make things difficult for me. Arter plenty of prayerful thought, I decided to take the battle to the enemy (so to speak), and the result (since) has been miraculous. It is still a steady battle but its surprising, sometimes, where you find support.

    Next thread will be November, from which I was lucky to emerge with my life...

  • blondie
    blondie

    This sounds interesting, Little Toe. Are you giving these in churches or neutral locations like schools and nursing homes?

    Do you see these occasions out or are you sought out?

    What topics do you discuss in 30 minutes?

    Does your wife know you are doing this?

    Have any of the JW kids said anything to you or in general?

    Blondie(inquiring minds want to know)

  • Joyzabel
    Joyzabel

    Hello ((LT))

    Thanks for letting us know how you are doing and what you are doing. I'm glad you are being productive in your life.

    I'm looking forward to the November's encounters.

    Hugs,

    j2bf

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    Blonde:

    Are you giving these in churches or neutral locations like schools and nursing homes?
    Usually neutral locations - schools, nursing homes, sports facilities, homes, meeting rooms - but I have been asked to speak a couple of times in one church, and once in another.

    Do you see these occasions out or are you sought out?I've been sought out. I've only once refused, due to a prior engagement, but I've not solicited in any way.

    What topics do you discuss in 30 minutes?
    All sorts of things. Life in the JW's, life after the JW's and how it feels to be shunned, pivotal doctrinal points to attempt to make JW's think, conversational and linguistic pitfalls to avoid with JW's, how my spirituallity evolved, and on a few occasions I've simply been asked to preach to them.

    Does your wife know you are doing this?
    Yes, absolutely. I keep her informed of my movements, since I'm (unsuccessfully) trying to keep the bonds of trust. Sadly they are still breaking because she hates both my rejection of the JW's, and my new lifestyle.

    Have any of the JW kids said anything to you or in general?
    No. My wife reported back, that they had commented that I was speaking there, but that was all. The only feedback I get from her is when "wonderful" things happen, or people I know die.

    Thanks for asking

  • ballistic
    ballistic

    Little Toe, thanks for updating us. I realised when I met you that you are a special kind of guy, but really had no idea; look at all this stuff you're accomplishing. And I didn't realise you had a wife and career to hold down too!!

  • qwerty
    qwerty

    LT

    I carn't wait to hear what else you've been upto.

    How was the naturist beach, did you wife give it a go also?

    qwerty

  • blondie
    blondie

    Thanks, Little Toe, for your answers. Afterwards, I thought I sounded a little nosy. I drop little comments from time to time at the KH, based totally on the Scriptures as well as referencing WT publications. Usually I point out something that is written about and talked about but not done.

    I hope your wife realizes what a good husband she has. Queen Esther was married to man who did not share her religious beliefs yet the Bible never mentions that they were not happy.

    Blondie(who loves her terrific husband who supports everything she does)

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