Oh So Codependent With You

by COMF 6 Replies latest watchtower medical

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  COMF

  Could apply to one's relationship with a controlling, abusive organization, too... reckon?

  codependent (ko'di-pen'dent)
  adj.
  Of or relating to a relationship in which one person is psychologically dependent in an unhealthy way on someone who is addicted to a drug or self-destructive behavior, such as chronic gambling.

  Codependent With You (mp3, 3540 kb)

  Codependent With you by The Chenille Sisters

  You hold your breath, dear
  And I turn blue
  Cause I'm so codependent with you.

  How sublime it feels
  To be head over heels
  Codependent

  Your life was screwed up
  Now mine is too
  Cause I'm so codependent with you.

  You're unstable you
  I'll enable you
  I'm codependent

  Unfeeling--ha! You're way off the curve.
  But darling, that's fine
  You're all I deserve.

  I'm hooked on the hell that
  You put me through
  And the pipe dream of salvaging you.

  You're my albatross
  But you're still the boss
  I'm codependent

  Addicted--so addicted to all your allures
  That when I die
  The life that flashes before me will be yours

  Sick as it is, I'll
  Stick like glue
  Though a snake gets more love in the zoo.

  I'm no garter, dear
  I'm a martyr, dear
  Who is oh
  so
  co
  de
  pendent
  with
  yoooooooooooou.
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  Utopian_Raindrops

  2 Odd COMF,

  I was reading your thread while listening to Salivas ALWAYS Very Codependent song.

  You can click here and take a listen.http://www.islandrecords.com/saliva/

  Ciao, Agape, U_R
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  ugg

  very sad,,,,but....oh so true....takes alot to over this
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  animal

  Everyone is codependent, some in a good way, others in a bad way. We all learn to be what we are based on our parents, thier parents, etc. I do not feel the JW Kult makes people codependent, but rather it attracts people that are codependent... not able to make thier own decisions. Other Kults are set up the same way, offer people that which they want. People want to "feel" superiour, even tho they know they arent. By putting down the rest of the "world" as evil and hopeless, they put themselves on a pedistal. It is attractive to some.

  Animal
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  COMF

  UR, thanks for that link. Very nice harmonies they do.
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  Banshee

  Thank you, COMF, for posting those song lyrics. Very good description of codependent relationships.

  For people who feel that the lyrics to the song Codependent With You are an apt description of a relationship you are currently part of, I strongly recommend the book Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. This book gave me a lot of insight on how to change myself and my relationships with others from unhealthy to healthy. I found it an insightful book and hope that others will also benefit from reading it.

  Thanks again, COMF!

  -----Banshee
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  Utopian_Raindrops

  Glad you like Saliva COMF.

  Always is one of my fav songs.

  This was an interesting thread.....made me think..

  Grasias amigo.......para ti..

  Agape,

  U_R

  Edited by - Utopian_Raindrops on 6 January 2003 19:23:42