Wrong Punishment FALSELY ACCUSED (LIES)

by Pking 9 Replies latest jw experiences

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  Pking

  Well i was accused for a few things in the past. But i was young. I never influenced any other witness with anything that i did. But i was yet punished and my privledges taken away.

  ANYway. Over a year ago in october 2001 i was walking with an ex girlfriend of mine. Who is not a witness. She is a smoker. So she was looking for something and i held her Cigarett for her. As i did that, and elder and his wife and daughter drove past me. I knew it was them. But thought nothing of it. Since i was not the one smoking. Anyways, four months down the line, this elder calls me in after the meting. I refused so my brother and i went on another night to discuss this with them. Calling us in seperately, asking my bro first, and TELLING him that they saw ME smoking on the one side of a Mall. He denied itand said it wasnt true. Since they never said they saw him with me. Upon speaking to me telling me the SAME story, i denied it, since i knew where they saw me and that i was with 3 other people.

  So trying to defend myself i got angry and cocky cuz i was being interrupted every for trying to defend myself. And they woyld CONTINUALLY put words in my mouth. Accusing me of things that wern't true. Bringing up my past etc... Using it against me. So the more they accuse me, the more angry i get, they start saying im not RESPECTFUL. But as i try to tell them they not respectful to me by cutting me off and not giving me the chance to defend myself, the more i get into trouble.

  In the end. I was Disassociated from the cong for being cocky and having worldy friends. Which was the one girl i was with that i havnt seen for 6 months. The smoking was not an issue anymore. Infact they dropped that and i was Not punished for the smoking "Situation". Rather just for being disrepectful for defending myself and having worldy friends. Which everyone has.

  Can anyone tell me if this was a fair punishment or if they were right, being as seeing me with a smoke is what brought up this issue, was yet afterwards dropped.

  I think they were just hot on my A$$ and always wanted to get rid of me and screw my spirit up, and make me feel ashamed, Which i dont since i have SO MANY stories i could tell bout elders daughters and sons. Would be fun though.

  Tell me what you people think of this story. Its a small thing. But worst has happened to me.
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  Brummie

  . The smoking was not an issue anymore. Infact they dropped that and i was Not punished for the smoking "Situation". Rather just for being disrepectful for defending myself and having worldy friends.

  Total irony! Arrrgghhhh....you must have been so flamin frustrated at them! YES it was unfair! sheeesh!

  BTW WELCOME to the board

  Brummie
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  avengers

  "Tell me what you people think of this story. Its a small thing. But worst has happened to me"

  Well. Don't start feeling sorry for yourself, 'cause you are only one of the millions that this Society has caused injustice. So don't be surprised if things get worse.
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  Angharad

  Welcome to the board Pking
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  Pking

  Yo!!.

  I aint feeling sorry for myself. I was anfry. Still are when i think of it. But i lay it off faster than it comes. They dont nother me anymore, cuz i dont associate with them.

  I mean. We have these book studies every tuesday. So for a few months we attend it at a new house. My family is the most regular family there. In 4 months we were off twice. The 2 people conducting the study were there only half the time. and some times they wern't there at all. And the other people just never bothered to even show there A$$e$. So after like 5 months we never this one night. The first sunday we sawan elder he directly told my mom she aint support the book studies. When that A$$ of a hole was never even then. Then i got wrapped across the knuckels for going to a matric farewell with my girl friend. Well they never spoke to me. They just came to my mom and asked if she was aware i went to a M/farewell with some worldy girl. (We won a competition for the best couple of all the farewells in the town, and our Pic was published in the paper) So "ONE ELDER" (Which i suspect is the father of my ex chick) saw me in the paper and reported me. They all hate me. Dont know why. She broke off with me cuz she said I GOT WHAT SHE WANTS and NOT WHAT SHE NEEDS. Speaking in the sense that i got the body looks brains money etc etc... Stuff to make her happy. But im not good enough as a Witness. not strong Enough. Well shes 18. Getting married to him soon. No money, No job, Writes his fathers car off twice. Ugly as hell. Red hair, acne, (She looks anoerexic) Well im glad i got rid of her. She's two faced like her father. Even the motherignoresme. And we got along SOO well.

  Life is a drag. But who cares. I dont.

  Post more stories some time.
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  Dolphin57

  That was totally unfair. I believe that you have every right to defend yourself against them You have a right to be angry about false accusations. You said its a small thing but it really isnt, dont let anyone break your spirit. Welcome to the board!

  ((((((Pking)))))))
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  Pking

  YA MAN. POWER TO THE PKING!!. (hehe) :)

  PEOLE. READ THE SECOND STORY I WROTE AS WELL. THE REPLY TO (THE Wrong Punishment FALSELY ACCUSED)
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  nightwarrior

  PKING////////

  CAUGHT RED HANDED ( CIGARETTE)

  W ell what can one say except ,your very priveleged to have found out at an early age that you have control over your life ,most on the board have been in a limbo for many years subjectet to the borg , myself included if the girl was ugly as you say then,you havenot lost anything ,but be happy that you are afree person,you sound like the rebeliouse type that the borg dont want within there organisation,but please post a little more of your time spent with them,

  as we all encourage each other,

  agarpe love.
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  Gopher

  Pking,

  I too was the subject of a very strange prosecution by a judicial committee. It seems once you get on the wrong side of these bastards, they will try to do everything in their power to make your life miserable.

  Only after I was out of the JW's a while did I realize what a favor the body of elders did by dismissing me from the organization. Finally after decades of serving men (men really -- not Jehovah like they claim), I am free to be my own person.

  I hope you will enjoy this freedom that you've found at a relatively early age. There's little to be gained by proving them wrong or whatever -- just like Jesus said, they're the blind leading the blind and about to fall into a pit. So just sit back and enjoy the show!!

  Hope you like it here on this board. And good things will come to you in life. No group of mean-spirited people can take that away from you.
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  therealtruthsayer

  I once was accused of smoking by an elder who saw me holding a white bic pen in my hand. I was chewing on the end of it. I was about 13.