I used to be completely addicted to this site. I would check it several times a day and spent much time here. I'm glad to report that I rarely even think about my jdub upbringing anymore. And when I do, it's usually a good reflection time for me. I am free of the jdubs, they no longer hold a major part of my thought process and they no longer give me guilt. I am free.
Life is very good. Freedom is the best feeling in the world.
Have a great day!