As an apostate, or disfellowshipped or disassociated person/JW.
Do you find that you judge XJW's based on the reason they were either disfellowshipped or disassociated?
Like, do you view persons disfellowshipped for smoking, different than those who committed adultery?
Do you view those who were disfellowshipped for scripturally challenging the organization differently than those who may have been disfellowshipped for lying or any fornicating reason? (the list could go on, for comparisons)
My bent is, once you are out, regardless of why: in the WTBTS eyes - you're a gonner!
I remember asking an elder a similar question, and he basically said: 'once they're disfellowshipped, for whatever reason, they are treated the same way as any other disfellowshipped person. Jehovah views them the same way. We should too'. This is not word for word, but pretty damn close.
Any thoughts?